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Radio Podcast Interview–You can call in!
Tonight, March 6, the Slut will be interviewed on the People of Kink Radio at 7 PM EST! You can call in and ask questions:…
Intelligence is sexy
This Slut got strung up by the darling MonkeyFetish
Interested in Bondage? Come down to Austin, TX!
The Slut (IPCookieMonster) will be one of the presenters and performers at an awesome bondage event called RopeCraft Feb. 19-21, 2016. For more information, check…
Kinkycast Interview
The Slut (IPCookieMonster) was recently interviewed on the Kinkycast. Check it out!

Articles & Opinions »

Meditations on anarchical poly
I’d be really disingenuous if I claimed that I have ever at any point in my poly life engaged in full fledged anarchical poly. My…
Why Do People Do BDSM + Bonus Bondage
Back in the fall of 2015, I gave an academic-ish talk for a group called We Are Takoma. I threw in some bonus bondage performances…
On How To Manage New Relationships
I mentioned in my earlier post on how to manage and deal with new relationship energy that people have a bad habit of cursing NRE…
On how to manage an NRE addiction/addicted partner
As I mentioned in my previous post, there’s plenty of research that suggests that NRE (New Relationship Energy) is basically a drug. The process of…

Guest Posts »

On a Constitutional Right to BDSM
by J.M. Green From the Slut: J.M. Green is a friend who very recently completed law school and was gracious enough to write a…
You Deserve Respectful Sexual Healthcare
A guest post by Bianca Palmisano, founder and owner of Intimate Health Consulting. “The gynecologist assumed that because I’d had male and female partners within…
Interview for WAMU.org
I was recently profiled on WAMU.org. There’s an article and audio. Capital of Kink
Great Advice for Concerned Parents
Freaked out about your kid’s porn preferences? Chances are, they’re just kinky, not a future abuser. Dan Savage offers some great advice for parents who…