Sex Advice and Opinions for the 21st Century
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Soon
“Do you really have to go?” I whispered in his ear. He smiled sadly. “Yes,” he said simply. **** As soon as he got into…
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Tell Me What You Want
Lying in bed beside you, I feel somehow furtive and playful at the same time. I can’t shake the sense that I’m still fantasizing about…
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A parable
(this isn’t about sex. This is about bodies) There once was a man who was an amazing dancer. He had always been an amazing…
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Program/Video Links for Gruesical 4: A Musical Most Gruesome
This was the final Gruesical! It’s been a marvelous run, and tons of people helped make this madness happen. Thanks to @Ramblegrue for making everything…
Articles & Opinions »
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Rope bottoming education videos!
It’s the apocalypse 2020! So I started making rope bottoming education videos, with the idea that you can keep training for rope even if you’re…
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Sorry, the BDSM subculture probably can’t solve vanilla consent problems…
As a consent crisis strikes at the heart of upper-middle-class America, I’m getting a lot of people from NPR to academics asking me hopefully if…
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Advice: Should I Be Worried about the Violent Porn My Loved One Watches?
Question: “I found your website while trying to find and answer to the following question, which has been surprisingly difficult to get ANY real information…
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Submission is masculine too
Valentine’s Day draws nigh, and we’re about to be treated to another installment of the 50 Shades movie and Christian Grey’s twu domliness (ignoring the…
Guest Posts »
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Cracked.com: BDSM relationships
Along with several other folks, I gave an interview for Cracked.com on BDSM relationships. You can also check out my book chapter on BDSM…
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On a Constitutional Right to BDSM
by J.M. Green From the Slut: J.M. Green is a friend who very recently completed law school and was gracious enough to write a…
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You Deserve Respectful Sexual Healthcare
A guest post by Bianca Palmisano, founder and owner of Intimate Health Consulting. “The gynecologist assumed that because I’d had male and female partners within…
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Interview for WAMU.org
I was recently profiled on WAMU.org. There’s an article and audio. Capital of Kink
