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Kinky people: please take and share my survey
Calling all kinksters! I am currently doing a survey of people in the BDSM subculture, and I would love for you–yes YOU–to take it and…
Part 2: You are the best toy
him I wake up in the morning to the feeling of you sliding your pussy down onto my hard cock. This isn’t as pleasurable as…
Part 1: Better than my hand
Preface: For the last couple of months, I’ve been toiling away on a novel that is erotic metafiction (it’s why I haven’t been blogging as…
Check out my crazy kinky musical
At RambleGRUE 2016, I assembled a crazy and kinky crew to create the world’s second Totally Awesome Very Kinky and Sexy Musical. You can watch…

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Advice: Should I Be Worried about the Violent Porn My Loved One Watches?
Question: “I found your website while trying to find and answer to the following question, which has been surprisingly difficult to get ANY real information…
Submission is masculine too
Valentine’s Day draws nigh, and we’re about to be treated to another installment of the 50 Shades movie and Christian Grey’s twu domliness (ignoring the…
Sex toy review: Crescendo
A while back, a sex toy company called Mystery Vibe emailed me to ask if I’d be willing to review a product for them for…
Solicited Poly Advice: Primary Problems and Hierarchy Troubles
Much of the time I’m sufficiently opinionated that I just write unsolicited sex and relationship advice. But this time, someone actually asked a solid question…

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Cracked.com: BDSM relationships
Along with several other folks, I gave an interview for Cracked.com on BDSM relationships. You can also check out my book chapter on BDSM…
On a Constitutional Right to BDSM
by J.M. Green From the Slut: J.M. Green is a friend who very recently completed law school and was gracious enough to write a…
You Deserve Respectful Sexual Healthcare
A guest post by Bianca Palmisano, founder and owner of Intimate Health Consulting. “The gynecologist assumed that because I’d had male and female partners within…
Interview for WAMU.org
I was recently profiled on WAMU.org. There’s an article and audio. Capital of Kink

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