Sex Advice and Opinions for the 21st Century
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Kinky people: please take and share my survey
Calling all kinksters! I am currently doing a survey of people in the BDSM subculture, and I would love for you–yes YOU–to take it and…
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Part 2: You are the best toy
him I wake up in the morning to the feeling of you sliding your pussy down onto my hard cock. This isn’t as pleasurable as…
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Part 1: Better than my hand
Preface: For the last couple of months, I’ve been toiling away on a novel that is erotic metafiction (it’s why I haven’t been blogging as…
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Check out my crazy kinky musical
At RambleGRUE 2016, I assembled a crazy and kinky crew to create the world’s second Totally Awesome Very Kinky and Sexy Musical. You can watch…
Articles & Opinions »
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Sorry, the BDSM subculture probably can’t solve vanilla consent problems…
As a consent crisis strikes at the heart of upper-middle-class America, I’m getting a lot of people from NPR to academics asking me hopefully if…
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Advice: Should I Be Worried about the Violent Porn My Loved One Watches?
Question: “I found your website while trying to find and answer to the following question, which has been surprisingly difficult to get ANY real information…
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Submission is masculine too
Valentine’s Day draws nigh, and we’re about to be treated to another installment of the 50 Shades movie and Christian Grey’s twu domliness (ignoring the…
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Sex toy review: Crescendo
A while back, a sex toy company called Mystery Vibe emailed me to ask if I’d be willing to review a product for them for…
Guest Posts »
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Cracked.com: BDSM relationships
Along with several other folks, I gave an interview for Cracked.com on BDSM relationships. You can also check out my book chapter on BDSM…
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On a Constitutional Right to BDSM
by J.M. Green From the Slut: J.M. Green is a friend who very recently completed law school and was gracious enough to write a…
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You Deserve Respectful Sexual Healthcare
A guest post by Bianca Palmisano, founder and owner of Intimate Health Consulting. “The gynecologist assumed that because I’d had male and female partners within…
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Interview for WAMU.org
I was recently profiled on WAMU.org. There’s an article and audio. Capital of Kink
