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• My book is out!

  My non-fiction book on the American BDSM subculture, was published by Littleman & Rowfield in 2022. The collective autobiography of the BDSM scene from 2012-17,…

• D/s burnout, postscript: An aside about gender

  You will note as you read the previous two posts that I have recorded people’s gender and d/s roles in their comments. That’s because years…

• D/s burnout, Part II: What do we do about it?

  Looking inwards, looking back: What people said they wished they’d done and known When I asked people what they wished they had done and known…

• D/s burnout, Part I: Explorations and Experiences

  Introduction I was first introduced to the concept of d/s burnout in an instagram post a few months ago. The concept and phrasing was very new to…