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Check out my new podcast!
You can now listen to my analyses, rants, interviews with friends and partners, and (forthcoming) even some of my fiction on my podcast, Slut Phd!…
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New Book Excerpt: Conclusion from “Violated: Sexual Consent and Assault in the 21st Century”
I am so excited that my new book VIOLATED: Sexual Consent & Assault in the 21st Century, with Remy Green, was recently released. My primary goal…
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My book is out!
My non-fiction book on the American BDSM subculture, was published by Littleman & Rowfield in 2022. The collective autobiography of the BDSM scene from 2012-17,…
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D/s burnout, postscript: An aside about gender
You will note as you read the previous two posts that I have recorded people’s gender and d/s roles in their comments. That’s because years…
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